Thursday, December 4, 2008
A story of a foolish guy!!I've decided to post this is because I really can't stand seeing him getting hurt like this all the time.
K, a friend of mine, has broke up with his girlfriend(A) for quite some time. This is the story of A and him.
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After breaking up with A, K wants continue their friendship although they can't be couple and A agree that too. Time past and things has change, A started to show attitude towards K whenever she saw him.
What did K did??
No.. he didn't do anything that makes her angry.
(A was afraid that she might gave K an intention of giving him a chance to patch up.)
There was a day that K's friends(G and his GF) call them out for some shopping and K told them he doesn't feel like going because he was afraid the A doesn't like.
(and A told them if he was there then she won't be going)
But somehow they manage to ask her out and told K that she won't mind if he goes.
So ... K went with them...
When there reach and started to shop, K alone behind them all the time while they shop because A doesn't wants to talk to him and keep showing that "du lan" face of hers that's why he rather stay alone than making her feels so uneasy.
Ai ya to make it short ... the whole day she gave him a very "du lan" face lo and make him feel so hurt.
"Why call him out and makes him feel so hurt and left out after going?
Maybe they don't know things will work out this way (I assumed) but why would A said she won't mind if he was there in the first place?"
After that day, G and his gf call them out again and again trying to solve that problem but things still turn out to be the same way. They told K to give in to A because she's a girl so just let her be(who's the one being hurt? Not you leh of cos you let her be lah!) and K wouls always apologize to her for making her feels so uneasy and K will always be the one sending her home whenever they went out even though they are not staying in the same area. One is staying in Toa Payoh and the other one is in Yishun.
"Why would you apologize when it's not your fault? If I were you, I'll throw her there and go home alone loh. Why bother to send her if she hates you so much?"
Another incident is that, a few weeks back there is a BBQ party and A would be buying all those foods and stuff. So K just wanna help out(as a friend) by asking her that whether anything that he can buy or sponsor but she just scold him like hell (as if he has any bad intention or wants any benefits from her). He was just trying to help out and she take it as granted ( 好心当狗吠).
You can say that K still have feelings towards and yes but he doesn't expect her to accept him or whatsoever. He really treat her truly as a friend now and yet she treat him like an enemy. I told him to ignore her and gave her back the same face or say something like "you think I want to see you?" or whatever mean stuff whenever they meet up but he says she will cry and his friend(G and all) would says it's his fault making her cry. They will say the same thing like "she's a girl don't treat her in this way".
"Why can she treat you in this way and you can't treat her the same way?"
Wah liao eh.. Not only girls are weak, guys are also weak sometimes .... Guys are humans and have feelings too don't just because she is a girl and let her "F" her attitude like this... Can you please be more understanding.
If any of you has a similar situation, don't let the she/he fool you around.
She/he won't appreciate your kindness anyway. Why not be mean?
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